Introduction
In Nigeria, the term “Kito” has sinister implications, encompassing the act of extorting queer individuals by threatening exposure and fueling a climate of homophobic violence. This not only amounts to control and intimidation but also underscores a larger societal issue. Traditionally associated with external threats such as corrupt policemen or individuals on dating apps, Kito has evolved to encompass dangers within the queer community itself, necessitating an urgent reevaluation of safety measures.
Current Landscape
The Tiers 2023 Report on Human Rights violations delves into the alarming reality, documenting 65 reported Kito cases out of 996 human rights violations against the LGBTQ+ community. These cases expose the vulnerabilities of queer individuals, with 62 male victims, 2 females, and 1 non-binary person. Importantly, the report acknowledges that these figures likely underrepresent the true scale of Kito incidents, especially those involving non-male victims.
Internal Threats
The evolving landscape of Kito now includes threats from within the queer community. Economic circumstances and opportunism have led some individuals to exploit their knowledge of fellow community members, engaging in criminal activities that rely on the threat of outing. This raises a critical question: How do we address perpetrators of Kito within our own community when legal avenues are often inaccessible?
Staying Safe Online and Offline
While digital spaces have traditionally provided a haven for the LGBTQ+ community, they are no longer immune to homophobic threats. To stay safe online, leverage your network by cross-verifying new connections with queer friends. Avoid divulging private information or identifiable features in online interactions to mitigate potential blackmail. This includes being cautious about sharing personal details, photographs with distinguishable marks or tattoos, which could be weaponised against you.
Offline safety involves sharing details of dates or hookups with someone you trust, ensuring they know your location. Meeting in public places with multiple exits enhances personal security, offering an escape route if needed. It’s essential to maintain communication with someone who can monitor your location in case of emergency.
Reporting Kito Cases
Several organisations, such as The Initiative for Equal Rights, Access to Good Health Initiative,
and the International Centre for Advocacy on Rights to Health, offer emergency assistance and support for Kito victims. Reporting incidents, even if you don’t require immediate assistance, contributes to accurate data that reflects the severity of challenges faced by the queer community in Nigeria. These organisations not only provide support but also work towards systemic change, advocating for justice and equality.
As we navigate the complexities of Kito and its evolving nature, these measures serve as a collective call to action for solidarity, vigilance, and resilience within the LGBTQ+ community. It’s a reminder that confronting internal and external threats requires a multifaceted approach, ranging from community support to legal advocacy, to foster a safer environment for all.
